Building relationships with others:
The talk about the contact and communicate with others and influence them and take advantage of what they require to talk about the art of building relationships and methods of courtesy and civility in dealing with people
This is the most important rules that must be followed in building relationships with people:
1. fittest is between you and God fit what God between you and
others; because hearts but God puts it how it pleases the Almighty, he
who laugh and cry, he says: (... then God is sufficient that thee his
victory and the believers * and A. between their hearts if spent in all
the land between what draw their hearts, but Allah has united them. It
is Mighty, Wise).
2. Psychological studies have shown that each
person has a special pattern it, and that the overall patterns are
either pattern My any human seen the world and deal with him through the
picture or audio which looks to the world and deal with him through
audible word or the owner of my sense of style is seen to the world
through his feelings and his feelings pattern Interior.
Knowing human
pattern you are dealing with and then try to access it through the
appropriate style precipitate his harmony and compatibility between you
and him, and the establishment of trust among the two of you, come and
talk about this subject after a few more, God willing.
3. Put
yourself in the place of others and then hear them speak of what you
love to hear and act with them as you would treat other people are
doing.
4. Always smiled, especially when difficult situations and frightening events.
5.
Keep a Bhdoik and serenity when provocation and remember the
commandment of the Prophet peace be upon him: ((Do not get angry, do not
get angry, do not get angry)).
6. Put in your account is always the
feelings of others and their rights and needs, and remember saying the
Almighty: (if you're rough and the heart to shake around you).
7.
Choose your words carefully, especially in the first meeting and were
excitedly when uttering your words with others, and beware of rigidity
and ruggedness facial features are even if your thinner than the breeze,
the poet said:
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8. If the atmosphere is not appropriate to talk on the subject of
what it tactfully and talk to him another time be more suitable.9. Studded talking jokes and anecdotes and aphorisms does not make them overwhelm the talking, but not really at least, it lends an air of modern interaction.
10. beautiful gift, although smaller and hasten to help others if I said the most important means of winning hearts and build a relationship between the people, he said, peace be upon him: ((Thedua love one another)).
11. The disclosure of the peace greeting responded with the best of them the key to the hearts, be sure to possess this key and do not like some people that if others consider them life grimly surprising why salute him and he does not know them and they know.
12. Keeping the promise and sincerity of talk makes others love you and that has not been able to do for them what they want, not in the human qualities of the very end of the lying and Astmraúh, he drops his prestige and makes people lose confidence in it, and do not forget that lying is a way of debauchery and fire, and the qualities of the hypocrites, God forbid
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13. Generosity Palmissour if less Aboak top houses in the hearts of people, and can not obtain the human love of people, a Mosofin parsimonious and scarcity (and a strong lack of the same, they are successful).
14. simplicity and lack of sophistication in dealing with the organization of things in life and not to mess earns the respect of others, even if the enemies.
15. hygiene in the mouth and the body, clothing and style is exaggerated and a pleasant smell, which relaxes the trader you do not Anverh you.

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